As a mother and a woman God want us to be. We must speak in clarity that we should only take mentor from God's perspective, not what the society have to offer. We shouldn't compare ourselves with what the media expected us to be.
My heart is to encourage women to connect with other women. Encourage one another and love one another. You don't need another event to meet, call a friend for a tea. The world would like to tare us apart, but we need to support one another. If you are like me, I am hard on myself until I am around other parents. You need "ME" time, if you want be a better mom. Our kids are watching us to be a model to them. We can't be hypocrites. We have to be the same person they see at home and around others. So, how can you be a person God want you to be? If you are so busy helping everyone and not having time for yourself. May God give you the strength and His Peace.